Darling, this is not love, this is rescue and every time I needed some help I tended to think that if we had the love of my life it would be easier.
I think is clear I´m talking about partners love. Ok. So the problems is that if we start looking for our other half in place of finding someone to share our wholes, we unconsciously start searching for someone to complete us, and that leads to find someone in which we depend on.
From that we are nothing without this other
everything and then begins the spin of frustration, manipulation, the imposition.
And everything because we forget to build ourselves as whole independent women before to find a man to share our lives. Let´s forget about redemption in someone else hands. Let´s try harder if we need and we´ll see how does it feels to be respected, loved, desired for what we are and... why not? To be demanding on the one is going to be with us.
Loving ourselves at first, to be better, for ourselves and then everything to come would be balanced and an own decision for our own good.